(Waving with both hands) thanks much for the updates. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. But really what you also might be feeling is the Pluto Square Sun as well, that is another energy in itself that draws two people like Moth to flame:) the 12th house has roots in the past and most certainly is Karmic so perhaps that explains why it can go either way. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . It's probably love bordering on obsession. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. Your email address will not be published. My own Dad was a Sun/Gemini native who made TWIN SIGN siblings (he was a classic Gemini man with multiple marriages and households, lol!) My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. where is your Neptune?
Venus in 12th House Synastry - Astrology School You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. Thinking this would help. I dont have other words for that. His moon fall in my 5th house. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. He might love you but in his own way. His response have a huge impact upon me. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. Thanks for the 12th house information. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. Can you tell me whats really going on here? Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. Maybe he bonds with us well because the three if us have gemini suns. That said, I do know something about this. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. It's very common to do with placements in this house. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). JavaScript is disabled. One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. I love everything about astrology. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? I thaught his strange behavior had something to do with this. Juno in Twelfth House. In hindsight, I now believe that my 12th Houser is just that. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. My heart tells me he secretly feels the same way, but the 12th house can have issues of delusion, so only time will truly tell. . when i came back there was this weird thing between us. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). Either come correct or go away. I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). This is because there are endless ways these things can play. These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read.
Your Venus in Your Partner's Houses Truly Divine With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf.
I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. We work well together and it is always professional. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. didnt dream of them either. I used to dream about them a lot. It is also present in my relationship. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. Ive cut our contact channels. I didnt want to talk about it untill he would be back home. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. The 12th House is also known as the House of mystery while Venus symbolizes intuition and artful communication. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. Its surprising how much love I have for him but it all seems so complicated in his head/heart that I choose not to act on my feelings and just let time do its job. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action.
Venus in the 8th House Synastry - A Complete Guide - Your Higher Journey Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. I have my Venus in my would-be partners 12th House conjunct his Moon along with my Sun on the cusp of his 12th, his Sun is partially in my 12th House, his Neptune is in my 5th House conjunct my Mercury, and my Moon is in his 4th House conjunct his Mercury, Mars, and Jupiter. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. Combust! I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. It s killing me . How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? Also, yes this is definitely a karmic situation. However, I still cannot get him out of my headlike there is no better man out there. When we are together its like time is nothing. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. Oh . You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. You might also note that he has Venus/Gemini very problematic, IMO! Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! ive seen it many times in others too. Its been a year since we last saw each other and 5 months since we last spoke. Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house?
Venus in 10th House Synastry - Astrology School Venus-Uranus in Synastry May 10, 2013 astrologyplace Those with Venus conjunct, square, or opposite Uranus in Synastry create exciting sparks in relationships. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. =). I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. Possibly. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! He left few weeks after we met for a travel for six months. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. My Mars,North node and Pluto(in my DC) conjunct his Uranus and Saturn in the 1st house. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. So strange in this 12th house. Oh lord: Hi, Steph sorry for the long delay in responding.
It's not of this world, it's spiritual and .
12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other?
Synastry: My Planets Fall In His 12th House | ElsaElsa I always wonder whether he has feelings for me or not. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! How is in your case? When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. Boy did WE clash, but seemingly there were no 12th House synastries between us. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. Never felt this way in my life. We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback.
Venus in 8th house synastry - - Relationships and Family - Astrology Forum He was everything I wanted from a man, he broke all my barriers, and he was what I want to become as we run in more or less same line of business. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. The first thing to . He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. so i point it out, and im more aware. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! I trust everything happens for a reason! Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. HI, ELSA!! Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. Pretty much text book situation. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out.
Venus Synastry in the Houses - Pathstrology Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). Take the love goggles off. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. Mars is a aggressive action oriented planet and again as always it would depend on the individual who is activating your 12th house. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. He does tell me how he feels about me. It is because mars is a harsher planet? I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. Double whammies. Long time away for me. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. The 12th house has a reputation for being connected with the hidden and unseen realms that operate behind the scenes in our lives.
Mars Synastry in the Houses: How do you provoke another? - Pathstrology Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through.
Venus in twelfth (synastry) - Lindaland - Linda Goodman this also sounds a bit like my own synastry with a crazy Sun/Gem Moon/Sag man. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. It may not display this or other websites correctly. I guess some things are just not meant to be. But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire.